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by TamaraPresley from Belton, Missouri

Last Post 416 days, 11 hours Ago


hey guys,

  my name is tamara i am 17 and trying to find some help for my uncle who was completely okay 9 months ago but now is paralized on his left side and is now depending on his family to help him. his name is frank simpson. he has alwyas been like a dad to me.

   so let me tell you what happened: my uncle is diabetic and he was taking some kind of medication  that messed up his heart. so he ended up having a stroke so he was in the hospital for about 8 months. while he was in the hospital the doctors left him unattended and he fell out of his chair and hit his head and they had to put stiches above his eyebrow. about 6 hours later he had another stroke because of the fall (he fell on his head). so that stroke paralized him on his left side he can talk and eat thats it. he cannot use the restroom or change himself. he has to be watched 24/7. He stays in his bead everyday, he gets no enteraction with other family members unless they go to him...but anyways they started physical therapy but the doctors gave up and sent him home. we don't know how long he will be here. he is only in his 40's he has three teenage daughters that take care of him but they wont always be there. He lives in a two story house that he rents with his three daughters and ex-wife and her boyfriend. its two stories and that means that my uncle can not be with his family. because it is to hard to lift him up and down stairs. My adopted dad and I came up with a plan to instal an elevator for him right off the back deck...i am studying to be an architect and my dad is a master mechanic so we have the brain and will power we just need to find the resources to use. we need to pretty much rebuild the deck from scratch. the deck sets about 20 feet off the ground and there are stairs that need to be moved so we can hook the elevator to the house. we have to move some electrical stuff and widen a door way so he can fit his chair through the door. so i was wondering if there was any help out there to make my uncle comfertable and keep him here as long as posible. so if any one can help by donating time, supplies, money or even price barganing on the supplies you can e-mail me...at tamrapresley@yahoo.com

Thank you so very much and God bless...

Tamara <><

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jdembski read my blog view my photos
May 14, 2008 | 3:41 PM

Sorry I am from Missouri and you stated in your bio that you hate Missouri. As a devoted Christian as mentioned once again in your bio, isn't it wrong for you to hate?

Yourtown read my blog
May 14, 2008 | 4:51 PM

I think hating people vs hating a state is two all together different types of hate. I hate peas but love beans. Think before you post

jdembski read my blog view my photos
May 14, 2008 | 5:38 PM

Hate is a very strong word no matter what the context. You may dislike peas but hate is very strong. I was raised to not hate or use the word by my parents and my church. I can't stand George Bush but I was told that I should not hate him. So I can't stand him, dislike him etc. And yes I do think before I post.

I could have gone spellcheckman and point out all the spelling errors in her post like another poster on here does (not to mention names-spellcheckman) but I didn't.

Yourtown read my blog
May 14, 2008 | 6:13 PM

Hate is just a strong dislike for someone. So if you dislike someone/something you hate someone/something. Bottom line. if you dislike Bush , you hate Bush. Look it up in the dictionary.

jdembski read my blog view my photos
May 15, 2008 | 10:20 AM

Again it is semantics. You can use a more harsh word for feces or sex or body parts but I choose not. We can agree to disagree on this. The fact is I am from Missouri and whether they said they hate Missouri or its people, I am a part of Missouri so no dice.

TamaraPresley read my blog view my photos
May 15, 2008 | 1:05 PM

okay...but what is important is not what is in my post but what is in my blog...i could care less about ...my spelling or who or what you or me hate...whats important is that i am looking for guidence about my uncle...
< tamara

TamaraPresley read my blog view my photos
May 15, 2008 | 1:07 PM

i don't hate people in missouri cause that's where my adoptive family is...but i grew up in kansas...so i have good memories there and friends so ya i am going to like kansas more...
< tamara

Yourtown read my blog
May 15, 2008 | 2:00 PM

I hate Kansas

redhotz read my blog
May 16, 2008 | 2:30 AM

Are you serious jdem? Here is a young woman reaching out for help and you are going to be sarcastic? I wish I could offer up some help Tamara. Right now I am getting ready to start a new job, have 2 children and my husband is serving in the military. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. As for people like jdem...pass right over people like that, their intentions are to bring others down along with themselves. You don't deserve the crap he dumped in this post. He owes you an apology. I think what you are doing is great and I wish you the best. Perhaps there is somewhere in your community that can help. Maybe call your local library. And jdem...you need help, you might consider others thoughts and feelings because someday you might be in the same situation. It's called Karma....need I say more? Apologize to this young person who seems to be one of the very few youth who is doing the right thing. How many of todays youth would give a crap about someone else? UGH! I could go on all day long, but that's not the point of this post.

TamaraPresley read my blog view my photos
May 16, 2008 | 10:48 AM

Thank you redhotz...adults don't take me serious because i am a youth...but i care for my family cause at the end of the day that's all we got left and when there gone it's not the same...thank you for actually showing that you care too. thank you for the prayers as well we need that just as much as the money and matirial and as far as jdem...i could care less about his comments if you are not here to help then your only here to hurt and i refused to be moved by your comments...but thank you redhotz for sticking up for me...means a lot as a youth....

Searchingtoo read my blog view my photos
May 19, 2008 | 2:52 PM

Dont you have a couple of lawsuits pending? I mean, between the medication reactions and the hit to the head..

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TamaraPresley

well i am looking for guidence and information on how i can help my peralized uncle. i live in missouri and i am in high school. i will be a senior next year. i love Kansas...hate missouri. i love soccer and soft ball and i am a devoted christian....

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